The most common female BDSM topics include hemp rope bondage, rope suspension, slave restrained and punished by spanking, caning, whipping and flogging. Also covered: Japanese bondage like Nawa Shibari, Kinbaku from ancient traditional Japanese martial arts. This can be both artistic and painful.

Glosary terms of the female BDSM topic is Masochism, Sadism, or Sado Masochism. Common restraining methods are hemp rope bondage, or tight suspension by being tied to the bed, or hanging. Traditional bondage and Japanese bondage is very different, and often Japanese rope bondage like Shibari, Kinbaku, Hojojutso, or Hojo-Jutso is a painful, but artistic and expressionistic way of making the bondage model suspended. BDSM is also related to punishing the submissive, or slave, with different tools like a cane, flogger, or a whip. Most D/s lifestyle people say that BDSM is a combination of pleasure and pain and common worship. Needles, hot wax and electro punishment are also very common topics in BDSM roleplay. A male Top is usually called a Master, or a Sadist, while the submissive part is named a bottom, a Masochist, or simply a proud slave serving her Master and being rewarded with His worship.